We all know someone in crisis who doesn’t know where to turn. Someone who is tense, upset, worn out, needing someone to talk with, someone to care. You’d like to help. But how? There are three easy steps:
- Listen and care for your friend in your own relationship together.
- Ask your friend for permission to share his or her need with someone who can help. Be sure to tell your friend that all information will be kept confidential.
- Once permission is given, report his or her need as promptly as possible. You can do this by contacting Kathy Slayden or Pastor Jim.
We are a Stephen Ministry church. We can provide one-on-one Christian care in a confidential, trusting relationship.
What IS Stephen Ministry?
People often ask, “What exactly is a Stephen Minister?” One way to put it is that
Stephen Ministers are the After People.
Stephen Ministers are there:
. . . after the phone call you hoped you’d never get.
. . . after the divorce papers are served and the bottom falls out of your life.
. . . after the funeral, when everyone has left and the emotions you’ve held at bay come crashing in on you.
. . . after the doctor says, “I’m sorry, but there’s nothing more we can do.”
. . . after the nursing home director shakes your hand and says, “Welcome to your new home.”
. . . after the last child honks the horn, waves, and drives away—and the house suddenly seems empty.
. . . after the gavel goes down, the handcuffs go on, and your loved one is led away.
. . . after the baby arrives, demanding more of you than you ever dreamed possible.
. . . after you find a pink slip with your final paycheck.
. . . after your family and friends have heard your story one too many times, but you still need to
talk it out.
Stephen Ministers are the “After People.” They are ready to come alongside you—or
your friends, neighbors, coworkers, or relatives—and provide comfort and support for
as long after as needed. (from www.stephenministries.org)
Think Stephen Ministry
You are the front lines of caring ministry in our congregation. Throughout the week, as you meet and greet those around you, think Stephen Ministry. If you see persons who are downcast or struggling through difficult times, think Stephen Ministry. Tell them about this special ministry in our congregation where they can receive the extra love and care they need to make it through the challenge or crisis they are facing.
Need a Stephen Minister? Contact any of the Stephen Leaders or Pastors.
Testimonials
Here's What People Are Saying About Stephen Ministry--Care Receiver Testimonials:
“I thank God every day for my Stephen Minister. I don't know how I could have made it through the past year without her!”
“As a man, it was difficult and awkward reaching out for help. But I'm glad I did. I probably could have made it alone, but it sure was a lot easier having a Stephen Minister to talk to.”
“Stephen Ministry really made difference for me. I'd encourage anyone going through a tough time to consider a Stephen Minister.”
For more information, contact any of the Stephen Leaders or one of the pastors here at WUMC. If you are interested, speak with Monica Copeland, Referrals Coordinator, or one of the pastors. Why struggle alone?
Are you interested in becoming a Stephen Minister?
Please contact our church office for more information.
Stephen Ministers and Leaders can go to Southwest Chicago Stephen Leader Network for information about upcoming meetings through the following website:
www.tlcs.org/swcsl/www/html/home.htm